I want to share with you a few words of wisdom.
Things that I have experienced and things that I have once been told.
So without further ado, let us jump right in.
You will not change anyones life without leading by example.
So many people preach about what is right and what is wrong.
Yet, it seems they can not do what is right, violating their own constitution.
If you do not want to be looked at as a joke in life, make sure you practice what you preach and you walk the walk; not just talk the talk.
Be the change you wish to see in this world.
Change does not magically manifest itself. It starts with you.
Most things in your life will start and end because of you whether you realize it or not.
You are in control of your own life.
If you are not willing to change, why would you expect everyone else to?
Take responsibility for what is not right in your life.
I am sick and tired of people who complain and play the blame game.
Things like: “… It’s the government!” or “… My parents wouldn’t approve.”
To me, those are just excuses and justifications to not do something.
If you want to achieve anything meaningful in this life, you will find a way to do it.
After all, if theres a will, theres a way.
People will not think twice about you.
There is an exception here but most of the time, people will think about themselves first.
Their needs and wants come before yours.
Keep this in mind so you don’t blow your top every time someone does something selfish.
You can’t expect people to do what is right for you.
Thus, you must do what is right for yourself and become self sufficient.
This however does not mean to be selfish.
There is a balance that needs to be achieved between selflessness and selfishness.
The sun will set and rise again tomorrow.
When things do not work out as intended, just remember there will be another day.
Another day, another attempt.
Nothing is perfect the first time around.
It will take many reiterations before something is perfected or becoming an expert on a given topic.
It is not about how many times you are knocked down; it is about how quick you are able to get back up.
You realize your losses when you give up; so just don’t give up.
That’s what differentiates the winners from the losers.
Until Next Time,